Saturday, January 2, 2010

Argument/Quarrel With Sisters

When you want to ask for my expertise and you doubt about my expertise, isn’t it a contradicting thought? Then why did you still come to me for advice?
I always want to make everyone happy, getting you a new computer, and setting this and that. All are not charged, but do you think all those are how they supposed to be? 里所当然?
When your computer is still in a good status, are you grateful for it?
How I have spent time and money for all these, what I want is just appreciation. But what it turns out to be is still doubt? And just now you suspect about my knowledge. I know myself I am not good enough, but if you also think the same, which you think I won’t be able to give you “professional-enough” advice, why, again, still come to me?

Ask yourself questions, did I solve your problems?
Did I fail myself in providing you with what you need?
And how much have you spent under my advice?

I am feeling quite sad about the way you speak to me, the questions are not enquiries, but more to questioning an accused.

Accusation gives people the most sucks feeling, I hope you understand that.

Plus, speaking about 泄气话 like you won’t use my thing ANYMORE or won’t get my help anymore doesn’t help to improve the situation. You only hurt people even more that way. Do remember those statements are only to be kept in the heart. If today I am not your brother but a friend, let me tell you, definitely is the end of friendship.

No comments: